raising-our-armybrat:

wemakebeautifulbabies:

OMG! Almost all the time when Chad and I are showering unless we bring the monitor in with us!

Everytime

Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently.

Unknown (via the-healing-nest)

It’s true.

(via gettingahealthybody)

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I know it’s over, and it never really began, but in my heart it was so real.
The Smiths (via fakeville)

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consultingsuperhusbands:

glorzsz:

Oww

do you know how happy these make me


graceebooks:

men at large think they are being robbed of something when an attractive woman with a 90% chance of developing breast cancer gets a double mastectomy

what better illustration of the male sense of sexual entitlement do you need


midwest-monster:

norsegays:

astrolope:

People being angry about ~dem gays~ on Target’s Facebook.

I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.

A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?

It is a big deal because i’m a transman. 

It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.

Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.

At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that they give sex same couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.

At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.

TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.

This rules.

As promised, photos of my son! 

He looks just like his daddy, it’s so unreal. Ben is definitely a mini-Nick. His hair is turning more blonde since the photos they took of him at the Hospital. 

This is the picture from our first Mothers day. Nick and Ben got me two new beads for my charmed memories bracelet. I couldn’t be happier. These two men are my whole world.

Ben was born May 7th

8lbs 9oz 21inches 12:07am 

I will upload photos later, right now I am going to snuggle with my baby boy.

youarefuckingmajestic:

VANITY AS SELF CARE ALWAYS.

YOU TAKE THOSE SELFIES, GIRL.

SHOW THE WORLD HOW FUCKING MAJESTIC YOU ARE.